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i agree with what you said. one way love hurts the most and sometimes its worse than a quicksand.

Love is the most complex idea in our being.like the saying “LOVE CAN MOVE A MOUNTAIN” sure it is the most powerful urge that we experience.. a libido in a higher concept. what make us love that person is define by his/her qualities,in which perceived a pleasurable experience.One way love is biase on our personal views because we become selfish in our stand, we try or imagine to be loved the way we want. It is kind of a gambling process in which success and failure stand our way.Our Degree of expectation has it role to our hurting feeling, and We feel hurt the most when we expect too much that our given loved to be reciprocated.

AMEN to everything that you said..

everything hit me..ya, maybe ur right..i must stop because i love..

love ya entries.. =)
Its worth reading.
tc.
=)

(^_^)…

dang it, yer such a writer. labs yu.

nice

i can quite relate to your entry. Yes! I’m in love but he does’nt damn care! I’ve been into this situation for 2 yrs 8 mos. hoping that somehow things would change but sad to say it has become even worst! L8ly, ive been doing a lot of thinking about the situaton.
this particular entry somehow helped me dust off some (just some) cobwebs in my mind.
hope 2 read more of ur blogs!!

yah it’s true! ouchhhh…..
tc & gbu…

i’m trully agree……..

worth read gal…
I am inlove too he..he.. sometime no matter how much cared we recieve,it seem not enough…particullary.. every human has their own selfishness… we want more..and more..maybe we will hurt him as well just doesn’t realise it..

gotta be honest… the thing that caught my eye was the line from the Goo Goo Dolls’ song. a fellow fan!

next, your writing. i totally, definitely agree with you. sometimes, you gotta be realistic and drop some of that blind idealism about that ‘don’t be a quitter in love’ thing. besides, it’s not that you give up on it, it’s because you’re being realistic. and i think being realistic is always the right thing.

to quote another portion of the song:
“God, it’s good to be alive!”
yes, indeed.

what u just said hit me damn hard. i always end up that person in love, and he doesn’t care much. but im also a strong willed person that lets go when i know i can find someone better. yes, don’t we deserve better . . .

hmmm…i agree to u. great!!!

ahm…
yeah..
whatever….
great!!!
maybe…

hey! that’s a great entry =) love is something i believe many of us get wrong. what we perceive and what it actually is, is way beyond what we think. and in this context, i believe its more of infactuation than love. for as everyone already knows, it takes two to clap.. we love as we learn the person and as the person learns of us. i don’t believe in loving someone for what we think that person is, but what we know and yet, still able to care. and if he can’t do that either, that person doesn’t deserve u! nor u deserve him.. that is why infactuation may be safer SOMETIMES (in my opinion).. and thank goodness some of us realises it before we blow urselfs in front of him or her… when the time is right, the right guy will come to u, girl!

such is life… moved on bro, hoping to read about your future blog…

nice.. ur really good…

u r right. looking forward for ur future entry..

i stumbled across your blog, thought i’d leave a message and say that this entry struck me deep inside especially being in the same situation. And its made a lot of things clear to me and you’ve expressed it a lot more eloquently than i ever could. Thanks!

that was cute…

do you know about with love we can laugh and cry but without love we in disaster

whoa

I like ur blog so much coz I can relate to it.

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nakakarelate ako

If I learn one thing about the person I currently like so much that is to “relax”.

We over think things sometimes and that’s not how it should be. If we try too much to win a person, we lose control, we end up being foolish, we end up disappointed, and yet we do it anyway because we live to love. No matter what happen, give yourself away but make sure that you keep more love with you so you’ll always have something more to give. More importantly… never regret. Today we might have done something embarrassing, so what tomorrow is a new beginning. (^_^)

Great post! There is truth in every word.

great blogs!..hope to hear more..

oh,such a good writer…

I agree w/ you my dear.. Stop! not because we don’t love him but because we care!!

gugma? duh..love really sucks..

hi tnx all to be a friend me

ur a very good writer –
very good indeed…

your’s is a classic case of a blind woman in a dark room looking for a black cat that isn’t there.

yours is a classic case of a blind woman in a dark room looking for a black cat that isn’t there.

ecstacy is all you need living in this big machine

Hmmm…what you just wrote only confirmed my suspicion of what’s been happening all along in my life. I am guilty of not loving someone too much even if he doesn’t care, but I am guilty of being loved but for me what i feel is not enough. It definitely hurts the other person but did you ever question, why all you ever did is not enough for that person? maybe he has an underlying reason? Maybe it’s not only you that is hurting, maybe he is too, because for some reason he can’t love you back the way you want him to.

cute

u sucker

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Yeah right.

whoa!…what a blog!..that striked me, why is it that many of us are in the same situation right now?…maybe uso ngaun toh!…heha!/…
think about it gurl, maybe you’re not realy inlove maybe 8z jaz an “infatuation”..go over that feeling of yours…
i know its rude of me to say these but he doesnt deserve that love of yours, dami pa iba jan who is more deserving than he is….
why dont you rely on these: 8z better to have nobody than to have somebody who is half yours, half there or doesnt want to be there, or there and then suddenly disappears!..divetch?…

I like to have friends, globally, especially those who can invest on real estate in the Philippines…hehe, but don’t forget to acquire the properties from me!

nic entry u got there…

honestly, lets forget all thatcrap about love… love is a simple business… like choosing agood secretary.. you look for someone who you think would do you good, then you woo her with i dont know what you have. You bribe her with good salary,or in my case my sexy looks. kidding. then she applies to you then thats it, you too are together. then thats the time you shag. you get married and happily ever after. get me?

nice blog. yeah, sure that “such thing” happens once in a while, and you can never force a person to love you the same way you do, right?..so the best thing to do is let go.. let go of the hurt and the enslaving feeling and move on. not only for your sake but also for the sake of the person you love. i have this favorite quote: “you can love from a distance. wen it strikes you, never expect it to be requited. wen it leaves you, never force it to return.”

wat a nice blog…grabe nakaka relate ako sa mga sinasabi mo…i now realize dat im loving too much i guess this is the right time to stop coz some people never appreciated my love…i like your work…kakaiyak..huhuhu…galing!astig!

nice one i like it

ang gugma sama rana sa usa ka dahon nga laya…. gakadugay gakawala… pero “Love moves in mysterious ways.”

Reading the title, “Big-machine” I was rather amused, but reading what came after that was what had stuck me to click on the link leading to this post of yours.

Innocently stumbling across your blog, all I can say is…

This is truly a beautiful post. I’ve always felt this way, and how you arranged all those words together and aligned them in this post made it even more substantial.

Kudos!

=P

ouch.. okay…i’ll stop

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Being unattached once more…a free-spirit, isn’t such a bad thing after all. I can do whatever I want, whatever pleases me anytime anywhere! My motto: Sarili ko muna bago ang iba. I can’t surely give what I dont have.

ey pipol. . . here’s a simple question. . . how would you convinz ader pipol dat ur partner really loves u? just a thot. . . what’s the sweetest thing he or she done for yu to believe that they love u just to get what they want. . .money. . sex. .lyk f “always being der 4 u”…. now the question s. . . what f i can do that just to make u belive that i love u. . . im not saying that im like that. . . y im asking this? o help my SAD friendz ho r DEEPLY BLINDED by der partners. . .

i agree 2 u!its great

i hurts even more to love someone too much knowing he can’t love you back. - can’t love you back not because he doesn’t know but because he just doesn’t care. damn!

haiz!! xmas is coming…. still im alone… i miss to have someone to care me and someone loves me… mr. right where are you?? hope you come to my life this xmas.. i love you all!

basta ako single.. di ko muna problemahin yan.. ang sakit eh!! move on muna.. hahaha.. galing tlga nun oh.. writer na writer..

Not sure who you are, but reading through your post, I finally know what to do with my situation.

Thanks a whole lot.

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ang kulet….. parang wala lng pero may dating! ayos!

a comment on behalf of my cuz! yeah maybe he does like her, but not enough!!! when will enough be enough??!!! you made me and bezcuz realize sumting…! thnx!

I can’t find your foto.add me,pilih_ndiri@yahoo.co.id.soon…

You’re in love.

But that is not love yet.

“falling in love” and “love” are two different things.

“fallinf in love” is “taking whatever you want because you want it.”

That is childish. Not love.

Love is a mature emotion.

Love is not about you. It’s about the beloved.

That is why you say “i love you”… not “you love me”.

When you CAN live without that person, when you DON”T need him…. and yet you stay because you are needed… that is LOVE.

LOVE IS NOT AN EMPTINESS THAT DEMANDS TO BE FILLED UP.

LOVE IS A FULLNESS THAT SEEKS TO FIND A LACK TO FILL IN.

When you’re not needed and he does not care…. it not his problem.

You cannot fault a heart for not loving you back.

if you feel that way, then you do not love him… you just want to be loved.

if i were that guy, i’d tell you.. as Edgar Allan Poe told the girl who loved him…

Stop.. because you “loved” (your self) more.

yeah…you’re absolutely right…love sucks…damn…i hate that kind of people who using us….after we give evrything, sacrificing everything in return pain and tears…

your in love with someone but doesnt care? Are you familiar with the saying ” if you want woman to look at you, look at another woman “. pagselosin mo hehehe….goodluck!

thats really great..!!!
yes sumtyms.. or most of the tym wer just thinking bout how to make her/him fall deeper inlove to you.. but the more u xpect it the more chances of failing..

wat about this…

“if she doesnt love you.. why not try to find ways of not loving her too..?”

im not saying that you should hate her..
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but you.. only you.. can help urself…

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Finally, some with a good entry on love, unlike other brainless, thoughtless and clueless entry I read, must say your journal is fabulous Keep up the good work!!

why in the hell we fall in love with somebody who loves us less? the fact that somebody who loves us more, we make them suffer most? maybe because we see it as another challenge in our life???uuuhhhh…../

it is an nature in every individual to fall in love..but we have to think a question is this a real woman or man for me? and who is him or her for being part of my life if they didn’t want me? we both know how pain to suffer heartaches but your only self affecting…so, must better you must find someone who really meant you co’z every person has their own partner in life

that’s great!lately,i used to be like that…but now i’m doin’ fine….

In my case I’m aware there’s love, but like you said it’s not enough…. Perfect! Good statement dude…. rock on!

Nice post… I share also about my past situation similar with the Big Machine. I loved someone, I deserve more her love to loved me back also, but unfortunately I failed. I can’t imagine why she did this to me, without any reason she break me. Oh damn.. it hurts so much talaga, until now and then it is not enough. But after all, after reading your touchable post I have already realize it does’nt enough to her. As you said don’t care about it.

Once again Thanks very much. .I expect more good post from you..GBU

The one thing that I understand about Love is this: How could you Love someone when you are empty yourself? How could you Love someone when you cant even Love the ones who Loves you? Love must be available so that you could give. If you are seeking for Love from others, then you cant claim that you actually can Love someone.
Love is freely given and not taken. Its not for one, but for all.
Love you all, and Love your blog posting, well said and honest truth.
May God Bless and Fill you all with Love.

LOVE is IRONIC. The person who you love the most can also be the person who can hurt you most.

Hi.. wow, I can super relate 2 ur blog… i mean hartbroken me ngaun,, kakabreak-up lng namin…

Wat I learned in my past xpriences..

We love in order to love, but not to be loved. If your motives are like this, so that is what you call LOVE.. pgktp0s.. Qng pa2loy ka prin nag LOLOve, despite sa hurts.. Then that’s what it means..
You are willing to sacrifice ur own happiness 4 d sake of ur beloved.

oooohhh… what can i say, i thought i can’t move on without him, but after i read your post,i really don’t deserve him, it’s his lost anyway …

omigod!! its like a slap on the face!! yeah.. been there done that. i deserve more. i knew it!! thanks babe!!

oh,we feel the same way.sometimes we forget ourselves in exchange of what we feel for that person and when we come to realize that it is so hard to let go but then we have to right?i just wish you will find that someone who will fill the missing pieces of your life and who will complete you for the rest of your life.love really has its ups and downs and when you find him,go after him if it is worth the wait.Love sometimes really makes us inspired and makes us feel bad but in the end it is always nice being in love no matter whatever the consequences are.but for me as what i have in my past id rather love someone who loves me much rather than be that someone who loves so much that person.anyways,love is always a gamble why not gamble for someone who makes you happy right?we are just passing in this world and whatever we do it depends on us no one will get hurt but still us in the end why not make things that we won’t regret later?Ah,love really moves in a fascinating and exhilirating ways but its worth the struggle.

pangit xa grabe

hmm.I have just read your blog just now…in some way,,I could relate from it..I broke up with my last bf 1 and a half yr ago..and beliv it or not,,I didnt try to have a new one since then..y??coz its been so hard for me to trust someone..though there are some who treat me so special,,do things that make me happy,,some hu mkes me laugh..I tried to win him back..im talking about with my ex bf..I almost did everything..useless!!his pride wins insted..Ive been inlove with him for a quite long time..nd its hurting me til now..he didnt care..he continuously hurting me,,not minding what i feel..at one point in my life, Ive realized something..I shudnt waste my time just in loving the person hu doesnt deservs to be loved by me…there will be someone hu will deserv the love i can give..let me share to you the new song of nina to which you cud really relate to like i do..
SOMEDAY by nina
Someday you’ll gonna realize
One day youll see this through my eyes
By then I wont even be there
I’ll be happy somewhere
Even if I cared
I know you dont really see my worth
You think youre the last guy on earth
Well Ive got news for you
I know Im not that strong
But it wont take long
Wont take long
CHORUS
Someday someones gonna love me
The way I wanted you to need me
Someday someones gonna take your place
One day I?ll forget about you
Someday someday

Right now I know you can tell
I?m down and I?m not doing well
But one day these tears they will all run dry
I won?t have to cry, sweet goodbye

i know someones gonna be there…

hi..i’ve read you’re blog…saw it sa feature. galing mo…:)

aja…
Go on….

ahhmmmm….
i’ve been there a lot of times… so i guess im used 2 it…. pro reality check men…
sarap kya na feeling ng inlove…. so continue falling in love…

i agree with you…;)

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hello musta na jan kau lahat sana bate kay ka lagayan jan mga frend

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well, it is really hard 2 make sum1 fall 4 u, but the thing is… ur not just loving sum1 hu cud giv love 2u in return. dats the challenge of falling in love. in fact, the one that we love always belong 2 sum1 else…,ryt? u cud never be happy if u wont love…

yes.. dats great..

hi eman… i juz read ur comments.. and i can say dat we hav d same situation… if u dnt mind.. i wnt u to be my frend?……. tenks…

You really have a lot of funs out here ha you got lots of comments… And I can’t bare to leave your entry without even leaving mine…
Yeah I agree with you with all the hardships of loving a person…. Huhuhu I am almost in the same situation… And it really sucks man! All of the stupid things I’m doing for him… even to the point of neglecting my own sake… Damnit! A moron I am, I admit… Yet, I know I did nothing wrong…. I just love him….. with everything I have… I really hope he recognizes it…. And if he doesn’t? You’re right gal…. Letting go is the best remedy…. And moving on, although will be really really difficult….is the last and the BEST option…

Ope I can read more of your entries! You’re a damn good writer……and an eye-opener

u mAde mE realizE thAt i mUst givE up…

coz in my situAtion,
he knows dAt i’m in love wit him…

he’s doing a lot of sweetest things for me since den..

dats really sweet but it made me think…

does he really want to do that by heart or just bcoz he knows i love him…

it hurts dat i’m contented 4 wat i feel for him and i don’t nid anything in return but wat hurts mor s dat…

he’s making me fall even mor wen i’m trying to let go…

i’m expecting mor of ur blogs!
nice 1!!!
thankz anyway!!

Do you feel premonition towards a person? i do… in courting stage ( like getting to know each other thing….) you will know if its for keeps or just a flirt… When your nutritionist tell u that a donut is not healthy to eat but you eat it anyway? i know dudes out there that you know what im referring, right? So why hurt your self? take off the band aid and immidiately get over it… CHOW!

hi..saw ur blog in featured blogs and same as the others, i cant leave ur site without leaving a comment coz ur just great!!! very nicely put and written..
Sad to say its a situation that im currently in.
Ahhhh, love…

Hmmm but what if you stopped and felt love with another gurl but suddenly the one you let go came back because she realized that she loves you and doesnt want anyone to be with her but you.. Would you still pursue to the one who hurts you or go with the new gurl who gives a smile to you everytime you see her and be with her??

i feel ur pain… what a great writer u are..

ang ganda ng isinulat mo..nakakarelate ako..hehehe..

you know just bear in your mind that,,when God wants to measure a man… He put the tape in his heart instead in his life…… don’t worry Life must go on……

baliw kana ata…joke…

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I dont know what to say……!
your some kind of……..
Donald, yes your like me… from now on I will Stop not because Im hurting, not because Im sad, not because Im scared.BUT because Ive’d LOVE. More….
Take Care u……..

you were not in love, u use the term love when in fact you were infatuated, it might be the looks, the smell, the jokes, the smile. It could be anything but nevertheless, you branded youre feelings as love, and now you take it back.

next time feel the water before you take a dive.

uhhmmm..

just read ur blog right now and all u’ve said is true… i can even relate to your situation right now.. i like a person and it came to a point that the feeling grew deeper and deeper as i try to avoid him and im really struggling right now even though we shared the same feeling but our situation is quite complicated, or rather his situation is really complicated and upto this point i can’t tell if he really likes me at all.. or maybe its just too late for us.. or shall we say that love is not in our way at all…

wooaahh..really like your blog..it seems like i had been awaken from a nightmare of love..but somehow my situation is different..coz d guy made a promise and told me lots of talkshit..and then..like a snap..he’s gone..and now,i’m alone left in d dark..still..im inlove wid him..eventhough he’s d rison y i cried everytime i go to sleep and everytime i wake up in the morning..coz i cant get him out of my head..but still..he doesnt care..:C

MISMO>>>>> were too good to be true, the more effort the more we got hurt…
nakaka baba ng self esteem.DAMN>>… am I so dumb to notice. Love can hardly be defined, sometimes…. taking this challenges bring us pain in the end…. knwing it’s a waste of time to a person who doesn deserve us. But striving to get it… pursuing to have it….
CRAZY about it….

I am kinda feeling this at the moment.

Another passer by.

It’s better to fall in love and hurted than never at all..

love is a splendor things that evryone can experience it..

erm its hard to pretend nothing happend..
i keep fallin for him everyday but he damm dont care at all..my life being so suck & mess just because of him ! but i just remember 1 things,no matter wat life must goes with @ without him…!

it’s so hard to love a person
who doesn’t know about what you really feel for her or him….
it hurt’s to be taken for granted by someone you love..

this is all true.
sad but true..
now i realized im not alone
experiencing those things.
we deserve someone better.

yeah, u are so right…
what we do, done, think, everything is just for her-him, but NOT ENOUGH.
well, if we can’t down her-his guard n we have push until our limit, it’s time to stop, like i do, 2 years (but i saw there is one girl with 2 years 8 month exp)…

but i’m shock of your last word…, we stop because we love her-him.
well, just take the positif thinking, n live must go on.
thanks for the blog…

wat can i say….. itz a truth that non of us can denied it….. were in the same track…. dnt think about it lah……

we’re in the same planet,girl!!thank goodness some1 here understands.its so hard to wait for sm1 to love u bk d way u wantd him/her to.specially,if he/she is jst there.jst a glimpse…jst a touch of his/her skin will make ur day.but u jst cnt.i jst cant let urself fol agen.simply bcoz he/she dsnt care.he/she cares but not enaf.better to let go…accept that that’s jst d way it is.but still even from afar…ur stl stealing glances of his/her face..still…

ambot ah..
im not inlove anyway..
but it can help me in some ways…
coz my friends ask my advices even i dont yet experience that kind of feeling… a strong one huh!!!

hahaha… do we live d same life? ^_^”

YOU AMAZED ME… I AM NOT YET FULLY RECOVERED WHEN I READ UR BLOG AND AGAIN KEPT ME ME CRYING!!! ITS BETTER TO STOP, LET GO AND MOVE ON… I KNOW LOVE NEVER FADES AWAY INSTANTLY THATS WHY WE SHOULD NOT TAKE ANY OTHER INSTANCES THAT COULD HURT US MORE,,,, AND LOVE DOESNT EMBRACE ONLY HAPINESS, RESERVED FOR YOURSELF ROOM FOR SUFFERING, PAIN, DENIAL, ACCEPTANCE, RECOVRY AND MOVING ON…. WE’LL I SHOULD CONVINCE MYSELF THAT ALL THESE THINGS ARE PARTS OF BEING INLOVE… PLS. VISIT MY SITE AND CATCH UP MY BLOG… TNX

cool blog, cool choices of words and sentence, at least, for an indonesian, I’m quite amazed to see writings like this

Sometimes Love just aint’ enough by Patti Smyth and Don Henly

Now, I don’t want to lose you,
but I don’t want to use you
just to have somebody by my side.
And I don’t want to hate you,
I don’t want to take you,
but I don’t want to be the one to cry.

And that don’t really matter to anyone anymore.
But like a fool I keep losing my place
and I keep seeing you walk through that door.

(Chorus)
But there’s a danger in loving somebody too much,
and it’s sad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes, love just aint enough.

Now, I could never change you, I don’t want to blame you.
Baby, you don’t have to take the fall.
Yes, I may have hurt you,
but I did not desert you.
Maybe I just want to have it all.
It makes a sound like thunder,
it makes me feel like rain.
And like a fool who will never see the truth,
I keep thinking something’s gonna change.

(Chorus)
And there’s no way home,
when it’s late at night and you’re all alone.
Are there things that you wanted to say?
And do you feel me beside you in your bed,
there beside you, where I used to lay?

And there’s a danger in loving somebody too much,
and it’s sad when you know it’s your heart they can’t touch.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay who they are.
Baby, sometimes, love just ain’t enough.

Baby, sometimes, love… it just ain’t enough.
Oh, Oh, Oh, No.

This song will make your heart melt again..nice song anyway!support ur blog!it reflects everything that im going through..thanx!

sana sa birthday kung darating sa DEc.5 sana my handa me kahit simple lang…at makuha ung cell ko

hahaha! yah im in love but the problem is he doesn’t care about my feelings,, he always hurt me,,but i’ll do anything jus to survive the relationship!!!:(,, but now his gone finally i decided to give up on him,, i don’t know if it’s right, frankly speaking right now my eyes wanted to cry,,i am teary eyes as this moment,, i dont how long i can forget my feelings for him! bullshit! i love him very much,, but in return theres nothing appreciation i get from him,, i love him but i don’t expect that he love me also,,,:(

been falling in love..out of love..and falling in love again…

your blog hit me like a .45mm bullet straight into my thick skull.

duhhh… darling… another journey has ended… another one must waiting somewhere.. hihihi..u’ll be okay, kan???

great!

hi! first time klang d2 sa site na’to..

WOW….
that’s deep. I can really relate to this blog…U rock!
Do you have a book or anything?? =)

Haha… The one-sided phenomenon… I’m a victim of the damned thing myself.

Good writing.

you’re right… i’ve been there,too.. ;(

i can totally rel8 2 dis entry of urs..im hvin dis major BIG crush on some1..so wha u wrote truly reflects to hw im feelin nw..
u knw the sayin the1 u luv dunno ur alive but the1 u dun notices u?..its so damn irriating ya..
thkx 4 sharin ur thots
keep on writing

hello!! i hope ure fine ryt now

its better n lang n parang he don’t care than he shows you that he cares but the truth is he does not really care (nakakalito ba?)mas msakit yon pag nangyari

yeah so true. and what sucks even more is… that at some point it gets even scarier.. you know that you can’t and you should stop na..but you can’t go back to who you are anymore…. nakakapagod…pro why do we always to this to ourselves… it hurts soo much to think that i’m spending a lot of my time thinking of him and that… i may haven’t pass his mind even for a sec of his a day…

uhmm.. hi! u know what, the day i read this, i decided to stop.. Stop what i was going through with him.. yeah it came to a point when though you’ve known each other for years… and though i wouldn’t understand why i care so much about him, and why i love him so much yet i’m NOT getting back what i deserve to have.. his love and care, (not even asking for more, equal share is fine) but It’s just NOT ENOUGH!…. well, thanks for making me realize that i’m such a best catch but HE SIMPLY CAN’T SEE THAT….. More power Marga!

Human as we are, we always want to love but expect to be loved back the way we want to.Loving with condition is not geniune love at all.Yours is a romantic kind of love.Loving without conditional simply means giving yourself totally without remorse, without regret,without expecting in return.Giving is the magic word.Loving is the hardest work.God teaches us how to become loving people. He said, Love and get hurt. Get hurt and learn. Learn and love again…………..

wanna share! “THE GREATER THE LOVE, THE GREATER THE TRAGEDY WHEN IT’S OVER..” -sparks’ rodanthe

“With love along with all its stupidity and beauty, there comes a point where you realize you don’t want to listen to sad love songs, or watch drippy movies, or read schmaltzy stories, you want the real thing not a mere reflection of it”

very very true.
AMEN to all that you said, it made me wanna cry, not of sadness but of how easy to relate to your topic was. Few people can write in a gentle yet firm way. (: Go you.

quite alot of people who are in the same boat as you are. Very nice post. It would not take a long time for a person to find out if someone you care about really loves you. Actions tell….alot of things about his/her intentions. One lesson I have learned about being in this kind of situation, is to get off it. It won’t do you or the other any good. Here are some thoughts I would like to share to everyone: 10 Lessons in Love

1. Love comes, not for the brain, but for the heart. It has no reason nor cause.

2. Love is always a surprise. It hits at the most unexpected time, place,
person and situation.

3. Never love because of need but because of want.

4. True love is a rare gift thus when found, treasure it.

5. Love is never about playing it safe. It is about taking risks.

6. The perfect person doesn’t exist. There are only people perfect for each other.

7. There will always come a time that we have to stop loving someone, not because the person started hating us,
but because we ran out of reasons to fight for what we feel inside.

8. Keep a piece of your heart for yourself.

9. When love fails, cry but know when to stop, pick yourself up and move on.

10. Learn to accept the fact that some things are not just meant to be.

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you may want to apply # 9 and 10 in this kind of scenario.

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Never regret what you have given to another person. You should always remember that When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you’ll never get back.

Your Time is your Life.

That is why the greatest gift you can give is your time.

Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell LOVE is T-I-M-E.

‘Coz the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others but how much we give of ourselves.

…. it will not make you less of a person if you give your time. It is just knowing when enough is enough.

We may have different outlooks about love, but whatever those are, there is only one truth to everyone’s heartache, ‘LOVE HURTS WHEN GOD KNOWS WE DESERVE SOMEONE ELSE.’

I am currently going through this whole experience. My world revolved around this one person. Although I didn’t neglect my own life, I still feel so stressed everytime he tells me about his “escapades”. Now I have come to realize that this is leading nowhere. I do not deserve to be hurt like this. It’s pathetic. Although it’s so painful, I know I must move on.

nice blog…>

ha ha… cool.

hahhahaha.nice one.

it hit me man…..

can i post it too….

pls. so that many can read it….

I didn’t know that you’re such a good writer. Cheer up lil sis, you’re too young and we shouldn’t hurry too much, shouldn’t expect too much and shouldn’t want too much. I’ve been there too, I wanted something so bad that I thought it was really love but then I was just selfish for gripping too tight that he wanted to let go. You’re a pretty girl and if you’re patient enough, your heart will finally fall on the right guy’s hands.

Just like me, I went to hell and back hoping someone would love me back. Emotions stirred my thoughts and that’s not good. But I guess, these things that happened made us learn, made us become mature. Soon, you’ll realize how those experiences made you stronger. Don’t be in a hurry, some things might slip away because we were in a hurry.

I walked through the shadows of heart aches as well, I know you’ll be ok. Cheer up little sis. Though we don’t have the time to chit chat, I hope and I know you’ll be ok. I’m just here.
He knows that you love him and he cares. Some guys are just different. He cares and he want things to be ok. Sometimes love doesn’t strike fast. Sometimes, we have to be patient and let things flow, let things be settled.

your friendster suck

Hi! U don’t know me and I don’t know you. it just happen that I took a glance into your blog and I can’t stop myself from reading it further. I totally get what you mean. Coz I have a crush on someone too at the moment.
Sometimes it’s just easier to be loved than to love someone. However, we can’t force someone to like/love us. Maybe the whole point is just to give love and not to expect being love back.
Sometimes when I just wanna let go of the feelings, it’s just so hard. It’s so self-tormenting.
I guess both of us maybe just have to be patient and settle down abit.
Nice writing!:)
Best Luck for both of us and the others with same experience i guess!

homo sapien are selfish race… that’s all I can say.
once out of love, I realised that if I still hate her, that means I’m still in love with her.
Time is very powerful… believe me when I say it can wash away almost everything, including memories.

=)

i agree with what you said

- Fattam

ur rght guys we have 2 move on…..kht sobrng sakit kht mahirap kht RINGBEARER kp ng kasal ng parents nya…(thats me). ako p ung niloko….13.13.13.13.13.13.13.

thx sa blog…….

it’s a great blog gurl…

i want a freindssssssssssss!

hello, i want some1 who can love me back the way i love him . . .

well…that’s love… that’s what love can do….anyway.., this thing is worth reading….

i love u

huh!!!?

i dnt know and i dnt have any comment

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its a very nice blog…godbless for the writer!!!

its a nice blog…good luck (”,)

u have me now!!!

Yepp.. I guess love is pretty complicated.. ;-p..

cool!

i was stunned by ur blog i cant help but reply to it…
being similarly in that situation,being stupid & foolish…pathetic & paranoid giving a meaning to all his actions & words…that makes me now wat?nothing…sad but true,,i know we are strong but it makes us weaker just with a glimpse of hope that there will something wonderful…what i realize is that its not what we want to do but what we believe we can do…let’s stop stumbling into that QUICKSAND,and be ready to face another much deserving life, hope we find the right one who is not clueless…

really hit me

great day!!!
YES! You are defenitely right,I hate it but im curently struggling with that hell situation! your blogs hit me straight up to the smallest vein ofd heart.I know that it wasn’t his intention to give me that hurt.. but his ignorance keeps on killing me,though I agree with you it doesnt mean that I am now raising my white falg for him.
I am really thankful that somehow I had the chance to read your blog, It helps me alot.hope to read more of your blogs.
GOD BLESS!!

i love that song

WOW you’re in love… and you got tones of comments too…

Good luck with your lovelife!

u think u have done the best thing s to make her or him happy that is not ..so try to find sumting more fun

Stop being so emo.

its really amazing how thousand n thousand of people share the same emotions, i tinks tats the reason why until now love songs is always a big hit…anywhere..seriously..millions
were produce just to keep up wif emotions..isn’t it ironic tat those songs actually touch our heart…so if u r sad or heartbroken..relax..trust me there are millions other who share the same…at least its jus our heart not our house..

you’re a great writer!continue what you’re doing!,love your blog…..
yeah it sucks when you love someone but doesn’t even care!!!the worst is he doesn’t even know that you exist!!!!..hahaha

ate marga:

i didn’t come here to praise you, (although you really are a prolific writer, hands- down) i wanna ask you something: what would you do if that guy you love loves you back, the only problem is that he’s too scared (or too proud) to let down his guard and let you enter his sphere? what would you do? let him go, or wait until he’s ready? but what if it takes forever?

i’m really confused. and crazy. guys can really give you shitload of problems.

Yes , love between a girl and boy is too complex . It is so hard to understand that most of us refuse to enter such a dangerous game .I believe I am one of those who refuse to participate in it . Anyway ,what you write is really good and striking . I hope God and time will heal your heart .

what you say is so immersed with the truth. but sometimes, people just have to realize that love is not just the pretty pink roses in the garden…think about it…you’d feel it in your gut if you should stay or walk away. is he a friend? your beloved? if he is…then maybe the friendship would be more valuable than the romance. there are just some things in life that can never be…

your work sent shivers down my spine!!
i’ve worn the same shoes once and i’ll forever remember, vividly, the tremendous pain it caused and the lessons it brought me. the twist of the situations led me to finding the real meaning of love. with what i have found, i’d willingly go through all that pain again. never give up! keep climbing the stairs of torment and you’ll soon be rewarded.

Everything is not enough when we actually have a lot. If its ‘not enough’ for him then he is ‘not enough’ for you. Eventhough it hurts, keep it in mind and move on.. Things will never be enough. Its how you appreciate the little things.

know

keep in touch on your writing!
u r totally rite!
im in love too!anyway he doesn’t and never care!
^_^

woah.. i really like it. it’s woRth reading…

yes i agree…, kasi i’ve been hurt also..parang i feel so stupid for falling inlove with someone who doesn’t feel the same way…=(

i love mcdo……..

my sentiments exactly. u penned the thoughts i would have liked to express. unreciprocated love is such an agonising affair. perhaps, we are warped? well, guess we are all human beings after all, going after ideals, pinning after something as elusive as this.

it’s like an ice pick through my consciousness numbed with the pangs of displeased love..

know wat? 8s a pain in d ass wen ur doing all things and yet hir he cums…ignoring u!
y not not change the story YOU IGNORE HIM!!!!
the more you tie urself 2 him d more 8 becomes painful…
a soldier must know when 2 surrender(0_0)

nice post but also remember that when you love it has nothing to explain.. may we all find happiness in loving… god bless!

Amazing….Really amazing…. how the topic about love really affect us in different ways… i love your blog, it show a side of you, that few people know….. But just a piece of advice leave something for yourself…look around… Breath….. the air is fresher at night. if you think there still a chance for both of you…dream on…

ive been into that and this message from a friend helps me to recover from it>>>don’t let your heart run your life..be sensible enough and let your mind speak for itself.listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well…always remember that if you lose someone today someone better is coming tommorow..its true that love can wait forever but its crazy to stubbornly hope for someone who doesnt even care or understand how you feel..you deserve to be happy not in the arms of someone who keeps you waiting in vain but in the arms who will take you now and love you forever…<<< may we all find the love we’ve been looking for…

huhuhu…..sad story….but no comment….

Yeah… it’s a sucky feeling. But I know another kind of relationship that hurts… Knowing that you’re in love with the person, and he’s in love with you too, but he’s too scared of sucking you into his problems… so he doesn’t want to get involved with you. Instead, he goes after other girls to forget about you, when in fact he still thinks about you. And you have been standing there all the while with your arms spread open, not caring about his dark background and hoping that he’d finally come by. Because you’d still welcome him anyway.

Finally, on one fine day, you realised that you’ve been standing there for too long. You convinced yourself that he has run too far for you to see. You moved on. You fall in love again. Your love is returned. You are happy.

But the story doesn’t end there. While in your new love’s arms, the person you thought you’ve forgotten a long time ago comes back to check on you. Once he knows that you’re fine, he starts walking away… but you can never forget the look in his eyes. He’s still in love with you.

And then, you start wondering how it would have been if the both of you actually took the chance back then…

A drama spawned by life. I guess the point is love while you still can. It’s the only way to live a life

maybe, ang mahalaga ay that expereince leads you to this incredible writing that really captivate the mind of your audience..

maybe love without expectation is the medicine.. maybe..

such a wonderful writer..

heck yea !!!…THE ONE SIDED PHENOMENON! tired of mind games and over analysis!Reminds me of the song “someday we’ll know” by the New Radicals

your very gifted.. i hope one day you will be one of the best writer.. im not sure who you are but its really platonic that yaou love someone but he/she dont care.. damn!! what is that?? you know ive been with what you are experiencing either,,, but you know its more damn when you love somebody and sacrificed studies and many things and yet she dont care at all anf worst she dont love nor like me.. i dont know with whats wrong about my attributes or my being.. i just dont kow why.. i said that i should give up and never let to fall in love again with that person again but still i cant do… sometimes love teaches you to be patient and have to sacrificed such things.. and in love, you dont love the good thiongs to someone but the negative things that he/she has…. got it? Godbless
and hope that you can get through it..

yeah.. its really painful to know the fact that the other person doesnt even care.. how numb!!! u giv out ur love yet the person dont appreciate it or even acknowledge. damn!! love really hurts when u know ure sincere and the love u giv is not reciprocated…
too bad.. been through that and i can relate. gues u juz hav to stop there.. coz u know it wont get u anywhere might as well forget about it and all u have to retain in ur head is u have love truly and i gues thats all that matters.

wow! astig.. keep it up.. were on the same side.. i also feel the way you are…

lovesuckshearts!

gurl your blog rocks… i really can relate to it… recently i just had my heart broken and reading what you wrote helped me to face the truth… keep writing and take care

that bloG was realy nice… can you add me up? heres my aDD applehoneylemon@yahoo.com

nice.. @_@
i was actually hit by your entry way back i don’t know when.. hehe
hay, love is such a complex idea..

nice blog…!
anyway i’ve read a quote and wanna share it with u.
“Just because u love someone doesn’t mean u have to be involved with them. Love is not a bondage to cover wounds.”

hope it enlightens everyone who can read it.. and to u marga keep writing, i can see that there’s a lot of people who can relate to u..and i’m one of them..God Bless and Gud luck!

Who u r falling in love with???????

whuwhuwhuwhuwhwuhwuwhuwhuwhuw………. ayayayayay…

I totally with you gurl.. I share sympathy to the author…
But sometimes it is easy to say thing than do things….
Sometimes we realize we love when it hurts….

We may all have different stories, different intensity of hurtness, but one thing sure… We all loved, in our own different way…
c”,)

so true…your deeply in love with someone who sees you as another individual who is existing in this chaotic world. isn’t painful to accept the reality that he knows your in love with him but just dont give a damn? and the hard part is you wanna stop but you cant?

Gosh, this post struck me. Gonna stalk your blog from now on. XP

great writing! you touched people’s lives.

you know how sometimes, God or the universe is trying to help you with your current situation by mere words from a stranger? this entry hit mine right on target. thank you, stranger.

17 nov irealize yes..to stop the love 4 3years i keep it and finaly i willing to love her as a sister and i dont have a litle litle regreat in my heart and iwish much kindess 4 her, amin.

First of all, great post.
Secondly, and this is speaking from experience, when you love someone and the feeling aint mutual you try to compensate for it by building the other person up. You make excuses for their mistakes and focus on their positive attributes,in essence one sided affection is the perfect example of love being blind.

wow.. fin’lly i found something that would ease me.. It is such a relief when u hear the same story of the so-called lovelife.. this is if i may say the story of my life right now.. akong ako tlga ito..waaahhh.. i am in a situation where i want to give up yet doesnt want to let go.. we still go through all this.

hmmm..what can i say bout this blog..in a fact..i feel it too..it’s hurt when u know that he or she doesn’t feel like the way u feel..but i tried to be strong..coz i know 1thing..that life must go on with or without him..but..don’t know why..i still love him until now..it’s stupid..

awesome description………been there too. Its actually a gift to be able to LOVE someone who does not reciprocate. Noone said that life is fair.
cheers,

Good, writer kuya:)
I AM VERY PROUD ^__ ^

– CANDY ‘-NIECE NI ELLEN ADARNA - ‘ –

♥ Love

power!

wow, what strikes me the most bout ur blog entry is that u got thousands of comments!!! literally thousands of comments!!! nawh, ur every word is very tru..

so boring.. i hate !!!!!!!!!

arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

all i can c. Love can destroy ur lyf….!

Este ate pla!
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
yuuuhh

eye opening! love … “sigh”

ang glng m nmn kya m yn ha glngn m lng

yeah…I must stop bec I love.

Nice entry!!

no matter how badly hurt the person in love… it just would not matter i guess… because unconsciously we ENJOY being HURT…

nice entry.. u HIT me BIG TIME!

i love this article

don’t you love these mindfucking games? hahaha.

very nice. never thought someone would write something like that
to me whatever love is.. in reality i still say.. love hurts! .. only dreams are sweet

btw.. thanks for sharing
keep writting! great day to u!

take care..

i love this entry..I could relate..=)

it’s better to have loved and lost than never loved at all….so keep loving!

move on…..enjoy life because life is beutiful….plz..AD me P_secuya@yahoo.com…girls only….

you hit me right there…i like the way you write by the way…id like to add you if thats ok…

i like its gud nice see yah!

two thumbs up!!!!!!!!
try to write a book

good luck

wtf!!! :\

i liky it….tru…been there done that..i was just amazed of u…ur really good..things are sumtimes complicated..but sumtimes u jsut have to do it..at least u tried..u wont regret it in the end..pls add me..as a frend..me like u in some sorta way..gracewamil@yahoo.com

ahh… really?

yeah! what was i thinking?! how can i fall for someone who i know wouldnt love me back? yes, he seems to care. but like you said, not enough. because he’s committed to someone already that’s why.

very nice entry..

well… i can relate to the topic. nice one….

i read it all and yeah its true, everything about it makes me really think hard.

thanks for that wonderful blog.

yeah you’re right…

… just analyze this lines..

Nothing’s real and nothing lasts
And I’m aware
I’m in love and you don’t care

Take what’s yours and leave the rest. So I’ll survive

I’m torn in pieces
I’m blind and waiting for you

oh how complicated….
wah…..

that hits me..=(

amazed how one post can relate to lots of people…surprised that i kinda find myself in that sticky situation…love somebody who doesn’t have a clue…life’s so unfair!!!~

I am in the same situation right now. I have this female friend. She used to be my “sparring partner” because how we always end up fighting, literally. Then after a while, I realized that I might love this girl. But she wouldn’t give a damn, and she might avoid me if she knew about it…

i admire virtousity and the fact that you knew what you were talkin’ bout. please keep it up! you make people such as yours truly comforted with the fact that im not the only one faced with a dilemna of this sort. later. (-_^)

bakit wala kang friendster at wala kang picture

are you crazy?????

i really love goo goo dolls!!!and the song of corz…i love reading ur blogz!!!…\m/ \m/

hmmm very true. I like ur blog

~usc_ghsbabes@yahoo.com~

nice and worth reading!

thats hurt..

oh my gosh!!

definitely striking from within…

Yah sure that’s true…

yeah,,la…

to love,sometimes, is threatening yet it content the crying heart…

yah right…i hate love…

=( it really hurts! should i stop?

emmmmm….that so …..lazy to say because that kindthing sio hard to say….

damn! you got a lot of comments coz you just hit it where it truly hurts gurl!! great!

enough is not yet enough..
just remember,love comes when we least expect it..

Gee, after reading the blog, it took me even more time to finish reading the comments. lol. True that you let go and I really support your decision because I think you need some support after making such hard decision. I’ve experienced such circumstances more than anyone did I think even my current one I can’t even seem to see whether we can get together in near future. Thanks for the blog, at least its consoling that I know there’s other similar people in this world facing the same problem as me here.
Take care there.

sometimes it hurts to realize that you need to put an end to it…

Love never expect anything in return. Once you expect a return (he feels the same way).. It might not Love anymore, but it called Transaction.

hi there! (^_^) nice entry…and i agree about going to some point where you don’t wanna here some “sad love songs, drippy movies or schmaltzy stories…” …so true, these things…good job!

yah ryt talking bout love but you can’t bec. der r so many hindrances….

oh dang love can do anything, aven stupidity

every one needs it eventhough its realy just it.. its realy hard to deal with

I LOVE YOU BASED HEART LIGHTED

kuku-ru-kuku

it was nice….i like it!!…it reli hurtz!!!but sometymz…..dat could b hapen n ur life!!f u loved ^^

ahhhhh!!!!!!! loving someone who dump you is the worse thing i’ve ever know gosh how i wish she will love me again! emily ligaya hope you forgive me and plzzzz give me another chance!!1 more chance and i will ask you to marry me

ahhhhh!!!!!!! loving someone who dump you is the worse thing i’ve ever know gosh how i wish she will love me again! emily ligaya hope you forgive me and plzzzz give me another chance!!1 more chance and i will ask you to marry me

sana mapansin ako ng crush ko.at sana maging mabait na sya sa sakin.at sana hindi nya ako makalimutan kung kami ay mag gagagradute na ng highschool life.

THE BEST THING YOU DO IS TO BALANCE UR EMOTIONS…..

hmhmhm,,.,be your self,.,.,doing something, if u want,.stay up

oh my..I thought I was the only one on this planet to experience such phenomenon “I’m in love but you don’t give a damn”..
but kudos you know how to move on.

yebah!!! high five!!!!

MARIENEST UGABANG,

I MISS YOU
YOU COMPLETE MAHHHH LIFE…
I DONT KNOW HOW DID YOU CONVINCE MY ASS TO GO TO BORACAY, BUT IT WAS FUN THOUGH, HAHAHAAH

TAKE CARE AND I LOVE YOU.
JOEY!!!

What a wonderful Words of Wisdom of so called “LOVE” It Kills..

Thanks…

ghghjjk

iloveyou

i feel for you.

your blog entry really hit me.. love it..;)

hi plzzz add me:jossie_macaraya@yahoo.com

pede ba maging friend kita ??

can i be ur frend?? ang astig po ng mga posts nio…nakakarelate po ako… =) please add me up po kung pede…tnx

Yep!! every word is grand!it hits me direct into my heart and soul more blogs add me sa friendster viz!

i rily lyk 8.8 hit me dAmn hard..

ouch….
its really worth reading….

love is a hard emotion to bear
>.

elow

hi want your name

i loved the last paragraph…it’s like it’s intended for me…i’m in that kind of situation. T_T and i’m looking for a way to break free from it.

thank you for writing this. =)

i wished i could but i could not… Tried and failed.. But will try again..

u hit the rite spot!wonderful!

I always love

Well, for one, LOVE and BE LOVED, or probably loving a person is not that easy. Especially when that one person we’ve grown to love is not the person for us to cherish forever…really hurts…but we should accept reality..that sadness is part of loving. Even if it’s hurting you, it’s still your choice whether to let go or to not let go. After all, the point of life is love…and what matters most is that we love at all…

wala lang heehe its nice

i’ve never seen so many comments on a single entry before hahaha. girl, you are right on!

Hi!Marga. I’ve read other blogs on Friendster before but this is the first time I posted my comment. Good write-up.

Yeah! Everything has been very well said and scrutinized perhaps! Why did I agree? IT IS CURRENTLY HAPPENING ON ME…!It is quite hard… IT SUCKS!

umiwas aq pero tinamaan padin aq eh, sapul! its like a slap on my face!

love ur blog!

yap u’re right, in fact, that happens to me too…indeed i made myself believe that he love me too, but it seems that i expect much of his love…i have this big doubt if he truly love me…i never know what he really feels…but now our relationship was still on going…but he talk to his x gf without my knowledge..:-( i got jealous…that’s why i have this feeling that he still love his x gf…oh my gosh what shuold i do?????

D’best………

Very inspiring..Yah it is really true but being rejected by someone whom we do love it just a part of our long journey of life!.. it is just a way on how God mold us as a better individual!! If we cannot find LOVE, the real meaning of it to others,try to lean on to HIM, Simply because there we can experienced the NEVER ENDING LOVE……………

wow! true! thank god i did the right thing.

ur blog made me feel lot better now…heheh..sad to say we’re n dsame situation..can’t do anthing now…ol that is left n me s the belief that sooner or later im going forget and learn that even how hard i try he’s nevr going to be mine…

love is not looking for the perfect person but rather learning how to love the imperfections of the person you love…

a nice blog u have here, and i must commend u for that.. hehe.. yes, its really complicated to love esp if u don’t think that the person involved cares to giv a little attention to u, and yes, it hurts… haha! oh well… that’s lfe… u just have to smile your way through it.:)

tc and god bless!

Name:
marcel

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at this p0int 0f tym…i m pRetty sAd…huhu…;(..Y is Lyf s0 uNfair…s0 ir0nic..sigh…
but thanx 2 ur bL0g…kahit nah mej0h maz nalungc0t aq…bec. wat u sed waz true..yeah s0 ir0nic..;

Nice article!!! U said you’re quite hesitant writing about this but u did great… We have the same sentiment about the idea that if u give love it should be reciprocated however, as i often see it from the relationships of my friends it does not always happen…. They are happy at the start of the relationship but will eventually get disappointed and sad because they feel like they were neglected and are not loved the way they love the person they are with

this is just the way i feel right now..
Im not sure if he really loves me..one thing for gurls is that they long for affection aside from having someone..How can we be sure of reciprocated love anyway..: ) nice one..

it’s about Loves….?_?

Oh yes the sweet sound of Love…Love is as sweet as honey but it stings like a bee…cLiche but it holds true for most cases…kudos

a nice take on a universaL theme…more bLessings!

hi i m new i thing this is cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

omigd, i jus love ur entry..
it hit me some how.
worth reading it..im truely agree wif u..

many times i have experienced that one too.. but i have no choice, i have to let go. . ive got to let myself go.. from the pain and troubles my stupidity has caused…

haiiiii
you is beautiful girl’s

worth reading,,,,

and goo goo dolls is may fave band…=) rock on…lols

dtZ great!!!… guess, we all have 2 learn & accept things…olWeiz remember dat “LIFE MUST GO ON” even if it hurts…

wow! I love your entry! I can really relate to it. =)

hyee….blehh snt c..heheheh..kwu tok giler ka..huhu….gravity k’not balance..huhu…..cll me james..james bond..hehekk….tata….

err.. nice entry… love it

totally agree with your words. nice entry, i lovee it. =)

hi there!!
its great!!
it kinda hit me hard!!!
i had experienced it… well, gladly he liked me too!! and everything was doin great… but now… it doesn’t anymore…
he changed..and so was his feelings for me… and now, here i am.. all alone.. trying to let go and to get over him… believin’ we were never meant to be… but i just cant fool myself… i still lyk and love him.. i badly do!! and i just hate it…

i kept on tellin’ others that i’m okey and i have moved on!! but honestly, i really cant… ;’c it’s really true wen they say ” d more u don’t want to think about somethin’, d more u think of it!!”
how i wish i’ll be over him.. i dont want to be lyk this anymore… i know he’s happy, and i guess i have to be happy too.. i mean, i deserve to.. wen in fact, i didnt do anything wrong… i just loved him truly and deeply… and love means sacrifice ryt?! so if my own happiness is having him, and his’ happiness is to be wid another.. then i wud sacrifice mah own just to see him happy!! i guess, dats just how much i love dat person…
love does hurts!!! huhuhuhuhu

The Line from the goo goo dolls.. well the lyrics great all people can relate to it..especially dedicated to those insensitive person whom weve waited.. im in love bt you dont care,i remember saying that to a girl///maybe all that kind of person deserve a bitchfist

—ouch!!! it hit me..I can relate to it..eerr.. thats my situation ryt now… he jas sees me as a ’spexal frend”.. and i guess thats all that i can be.. haaaayyy.. i love ur blog… =)

I absolutely agree with your point. Love is undescribable, isn’t it? You can feel so home, or even lost, just because of love.

Just keep on writing, I’ll keep on reading. Hehe…

hi! i know it hurts but at least you’ve tried showing your feelings, don’t give up gurl! who knows sooner or later, he will realize that he felt the same way too…hold on…=) but…if you think its way beyond, don’t be sad…loving is worth the hurt!

hi,i think to love is the most risky thing to do.but despite of,love still.for we need to love and be loved…

thanx for this great read

I haven`t read the 3 preceeding blogs, though its interesting that you choose to disect the song in order to talk about some of the components

But good songs tell stories, Big machine tells a simple story of love in a very complex way….

Music can be very emotive, its why people can always relate and talk about it…..

Personnally my favourite is: Secret Smile’ by Semisonic

“LOVE IS SO MANY SPLENDORED THINGS”(yikes…!!!) but its true.

LOVE can make you smile, cry, laugh, and feel the complexity of emotions…which can change you totally into a different person.

As they say in a song “LOVING SOMEONE LOOSING MYSELF ONLY GOT ME TO BLAME…HELP ME IM FALLIN’”

I’m in that same chaotic situation…and the hardest part is letting go… i dont know if it’s just plain stupidity,(a more better excuse) that whenever he needs help you’d be by his side to support him and cheer him up, and the funny thing is that after all the troubles that you went through, he still can’t find in his damn heart to love you.

What’s worst enough is that at the back of your minnie mind is the HOPE that someday soon he will realize “U” and eventually falls in love with you like a dream come true!!!

Guess it happens too many times in my wildest dream. And i know sooner or later maybe soon…my brains has to work and exert it’s will power to finally be awaken.

And so to you my dear Cheers to our awakening.

tc

Dear Marga,

I love what u post. There’s nothing harder than letting go even compared to loving. If you dare to love, then why not dare to let go? That’s the pain of love.

If love is soo complicated that comes with soo much pain, then why love?
Do you think we’re set to test to appreciate what we get in the end of the day?

wahoo!! 334. =) a lot of us can relate.. hehe. =p

WTF. Couldn’t say it better than this.

the problem wit you girls is that you always look for the womanizer-looking-crush-ng-bayan-boy-next-door and you are expecting that your love would be reciprocated!!!!

what the hell…

there are gazillions of boys out there who will love you the way you love him…

just keep on waiting

…hi thanx blog looks like my story but then cool… a writer who write it all and a giver who give it all…but when you are deeply in love and hurt badly enough it is really part that you can’t stop. and a mind of being minded is one of the worst. So i guess the best way is to let go and move on…life is very complicated and loving someone like that is really not easy to forget but still there are lots of chances and one thing I’m sure is to forgive and forget. Even how much pain you have still there are lots of chances in life. Set him free then you will know what i mean…even i can move mountain and send magic in the air still we can’t reach the one we truly love not just because we don’t love him but because we are not meant to be…

if its meant to be then it is meant to be… at least u gave ur all and wen its gone at least u can look back and say…i truly lived and loved…no regrets….its his or her loss…hahaha

aaahhh.. all this is so true. what you wrote there i find in much relation to what i am going thru.. it’s hard but oh-so-true. but alas, it’s not too hard if we start to feel the love we have for ourself and the love for God is even greater than this unrequited love we so much want to grasp hold of and cherish.

HELLO AGAIN PRETTY WRITER!!! I REALLY FIND YOUR ESSAY WONDERFUL!!! A PIECE OF ADVICE PRETTY GIRL….WHEN I WAS IN MY TEENS,I HAVE EXPERIENCED A LOT OF WHAT YOU HAVE WRITTEN…AND MIND YOU,MARAMING GALLONS NA NANG LUHA ANG LUMABAS SA MATA KO DAHIL SA UNRECIPROCATED LOVE…BUT AS THE YEARS PASSED…NAINTINDIHAN KO NA KUNG BAKIT….ALAM MO KUNG BAKIT? BECAUSE GUSTO NATIN NA KUNG ANO ANG IBINIGAY NATIN,YUN DIN ANG GUSTO NATING MAKAMIT…WHICH IS VERY SELFISH ON OUR PART,COME TO THINK OF IT GIRL…. DAPAT WE HAVE TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY…KATULAD NANG LOVE NANG DIYOS SA ATIN AT NANG PAGMAMAHAL NA IBINIBIGAY NANG MGA PARENTS NATIN…DID YOU GET THE PICTURE? THAT IS WHY MARAMING GIYERA,BROKEN MARRIAGES,LOVE AFFAIRS,FRIENDSHIP,OTHER RELATIONSHIP DAHIL MOST OF US DO NOT KNOW HOW TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hye there!
i like this one..if you love somebody,,u have to let him/her go..to see his/her happiness..even it’s so hard.
;(

a blog that is full of sense!!!!!!!!muah!!!!!!!!!!

hey…who loves sadam hussein?
maybe President Bush loves him..because he let Sadam go..go to hell with execution..(man..im starving here)

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